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Were you a victim of child sex abuse?

Recall your days as a child. An adult whom you respected might have subjected you to sex abuse. You couldn`t react or report because of fear... Narrate your bitter experience here for the benefit of the present-day parents and kids.

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Posted By: a victim

On:23/08/2009

I was sexually abused when I was 10-12 yr old by my cousin (18yr)weekly for2 yrs.He used to stay at our house in weekends. HE WOULD RUB HIS GENETALS AGAINST ME (no penetration)when there was nobody at home..at the age of 18 i came to know that i have fallen in love with him.Although i felt guilty of loving the person who sexually abused me in my childhood i got the signs of his loving me too,but i am not sure about it. as our society doesnt permits cousins to marry.therefore we both preferred to forget each other. now we both are married i have one son too and he has two children. but truth is that i am not emotionally attached to my husband till today after 14 yrs of my marriage . if al lthis have not occured i would only have loved my husband .i wish i was not sexually abused i would have happy married life. I still love the cousin who sexually abused me instead of hating i dont know why?

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Posted By: a victim

On:23/08/2009

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Posted By: sonali M

On:20/11/2008

Brothers , Cousin, father elders are source incest CSA. this thing happen in home but no one to report. now brothers make mms while changing clothes. etc and post on net like debonairblog.com, cousin are always ready to have sister. as cousin are not a real sister. elder always ask for oral favours.

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Posted By: sonali

On:20/11/2008

please draw ur attention on incest too.
child abue are mostly incestous .
please educate parents about incest.
thanks
regards

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Posted By: Abay Chandra

On:20/11/2008

What about males who are subject to sexual abuse by females/superiors in office/married females? What about children/minors who are compelled to practice prostitution? I saw a minor boy with a foreigner in Kovalam star hotel, when I inquired came to know boy is servicing him for a big sum. Everyone tell male & female are equal, but laws & society is biased to females when it comes to them committing crimes.

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Posted By: sandeep.s.d

On:20/11/2008

hi ana

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Posted By: Gauri Jain

On:19/11/2008

When i was a child,i had a neighbour,whom we called bhaiya.we(me and my sister) used to tie Rakhi to him as he had no sister.But suddenly one day when i was alone he called me to him and started pressing my breasts.I was just 7 year old then.and after then he always look for the chance to catch me alone and always press my breast.I could never tell my parents due to shame.But this incident has destryed my childhood.Now when I am26 , I got to know that not only me,but my sister was also a victim of his shameful acts.I feel like to kill him.and feel so bad when i think about those incidents.

I wold like to suggest all the parents that Please keep watch on the people who are meeting your child and please maintain a talking relationship with your child so that he/she may not hesitate whenever he/she needs you the most.Please stand against CSA,it ruins childhood.

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Posted By: elizabeth

On:19/11/2008

I was abused by my uncle. When he came home one day and only my brother was at home. I still have a scare on my mind and hate men for it. Yes i did marry and found out my hubby was a womaniser and his youngest girl was 20 yrs old that broken my mental balance and finally i divorced him. Somehow cant trust males that much.

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Posted By: Arvind

On:19/11/2008

And this topic seems to be there, so that people may read others harrowing experiences and derive perverted pleasure - is not this Yellow Journalism? Well, let me pose as the most compassionate!!!

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Posted By: A Victim

On:17/11/2008

I recall at that time my age may be around 7 or 8 years. A man of 22 -25 yrs was taking a bath and we all kids were laughing at him since we saw him half naked while changing the cloth. On this pre text man took me to private room and shown me his erect penies. He asked me to touch the same. I do not know how to react to the situation. Later, he abused me sexually. I do not know whether I like that act or not however was indulged with him for so many years. This has developed lot of complex in me reagrding my body and private parts. Even at the age of 16 i visited some of the sexologist, however no results. I afread to go to hostel for the studies since i felt that I am not normal. I got married at 28 yrs nd was nervous till long untill my wife told me that I ma bale to satisfy her fully.. I hope that if this would not have been with me I would have better child hood.

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